Women can indeed be called creatures created by Allah SWT very unique and special, how not, from the time a woman is born until she marries she becomes the heaven's determination for her father, when she is married she has an important role in her husband's success journey, and when he already has children then , heaven has become a part of it. The wife is a figure in the household that is very important, she can be a leader in domestic affairs, and can also be a driver of success for her husband. Thus the wife must be protected in the form of rights and functions. When a woman marries she has become the wife of a husband, when becoming a wife she also increases about her obligations and rights. The wife's obligation is to obey and obey her husband to the limit as long as the husband does not violate the rules of the law that have been determined and the wife's right is to get treatment and responsibility from her husband in accordance with the position and functions given to the wife. . The fact is that in the community there are still most women who are seen as not satisfied with the income needs provided by their husbands so that they decide to work outside the home, as a result, their position and function are slightly shifted and lack in proper application to the wife. The incident about the wife's position and function as a household occurred in Ngenep Village, Karangploso District, Malang Regency. The context of the problem in focus is how the position and function of the wife in the household in Ngenep Village, Karangploso District, Malang Regency, how Islamic religion views the position and function of the wife in the household in Ngenep Village, Karangploso District, Malang Regency and how the positive legal view of the position and function of the wife in households in Ngenep Village, Karangploso District, Malang Regency. Methods of data analysis using a descriptive qualitative approach. The author analyzes the rights and position and function of the wife in Ngenep Village, Karangploso District, Malang Regency. Where in this era many husbands have started to not pay attention and underestimate the laws and rules of law that protect the rights of a wife. The results of this study indicate that the location of the position and function of the wife in the household are mostly laid very well by the husband to his wife. Thus the goal of achieving happiness in life and dreams of creating a sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah family is very likely to be achieved. Keywords: position, function, wife, household